It is not the custom for adults to exchange presents on the scale of the UK, although token presents may be given, usually over Christmas itself. Christmas cards are sent, but sparingly, as they don’t have a big tradition here.
People gather over the holiday period to eat, drink and sing. On Christmas Eve, the tradition is to eat fish, even though it is many years since it was a day of abstinence in the Catholic calendar. In Dalmatia, many places stage a meal for all comers at lunch time, offering salt cod (bakalar) and wine. In Jelsa (pictured right) the church choir traditionally sings carols in the square during the meal.
After the service, the children gather outside and let off firecrackers, while the priest greets the congregation and then heads off to Jelsa, where he leads an even longer and more elaborate mass lasting until nearly two in the morning. After the “midnight” mass in each place, whatever time it finishes, the congregation will naturally re-group for more festive eating and drinking. The priests generally take only token refreshments, as their day will start again at 9am with the first mass of Christmas morning. The Christmas season is a testing time for their stamina and voices.
Croatia was freed from Communism and became independent in 1990, long enough ago for a generation of youngsters to be unaware that the timeless Catholic traditions of Christmas and other feasts were strongly discouraged, if not banned, during Croatia’s 45 years under Communism. "Grandfather Ice" replaced Santa Claus and St.Nicholas. Religion was allowed up to a point, but there was an uneasy relationship between church and state. Many priests were imprisoned, some sentenced to hard labour. Anyone who went to church could not expect promotion at work. Professionals such as teachers were actively discouraged from attendance, and would normally hear mass from the sacristy to avoid being seen.
Croatians are resourceful under pressure, and devised strategies to avoid confrontations with the authorities over their religious beliefs. One ploy of parents who decided to have their children baptized was for the husband to go out and sit ostentatiously in a public place, while the wife smuggled the baby to the priest. If the husband was later accused of having his child baptized, he would swear and rant and rave that his wife had tricked him and done it behind his back against his wishes. This was usually sufficient to safeguard his job and prevent any unpleasant reprisals.
All of that is now well in the past, although still a living memory. One tradition that has been revived since Croatia became independent

There is just one new house in Gornje (Upper) Pitve, where all the other houses are over one hundred years old, so there was a special joyous celebration for the inaugural blessing, as villager Dane (Daniel) celebrated completing his beautiful stone-clad addition to the local architecture after two years of hard work. Dane has a splendid voice, which resounds as a joyful gift on every public celebration and occasion in our village. A good start to the New Year.
© Vivian Grisogono 2007